TTC #2 High level of FSH - 22?

I'm 30 years old and have been ttc #2 since Feb 08. I had my first son in Oct 06 after ttc for 1 year. I've just come back from the fertility specialist with some results that i'm told are not good. My fsh level was 22. At the same time my prolactin was 10 ug/L and luteinizing was 17 u/l. My cycles can range anywhere between 30 - 40ish days but did go through a phase of where it was 45 - 60 for about 6-7 months. The specialist has said my chances of conceiving are slim to say the best and said with my fsh at 22 it's like i'm almost going in to menopause. He sent me for another blood test to make sure the results were correct. Does anyone have advice or been in a similar situation which may give me some hope? My last Af was on June 19. The blood work was done on the 30th June. Thanks.