I just peirced my ears two weeks ago at a 10g and im up to a 4g now but my ears arent healed is that bad?

ive been using tapers and stuff to make sure i dont tear them but my girlfriend is worried that since i didnt let them heal at 10g where i peirced them and that im streching them up that when they do heal theyll be stuck like that for good even if i take my plugs out for good. any insight?